HOW TO ADHD: Improve Mental Performance with Natural Biohacking Strategies for Brain and Gut Health
For many people, ADHD comes with challenges in focus, energy regulation, and impulsivity. What if managing these symptoms could be as simple as optimising what we eat and how we live? In my previous blog post on the effects of social media, I shed light on how it impacts ADHD, but what else can we do in our day-to-day? Emerging research shows that a healthy gut plays a key role in cognitive function and emotional balance (Cryan & Dinan, 2012). Small changes to diet and lifestyle can improve attention and mental clarity—critical for managing ADHD. Keep reading to explore how biohacking strategies like diet, environment, and mindfulness can support brain and gut health to help manage ADHD! IMPORTANTLY, ADHD, often perceived as a challenge, can also be viewed as a unique strength. The ability to hyper-focus on areas of interest, an often overlooked aspect of ADHD, is deeply connected to dopamine pathways in the brain (Huberman, 2023). By embracing biohacking strategies—such as optimising brain-gut health through diet, improving environmental factors, and practicing mindfulness—individuals with ADHD can harness this superpower to their advantage. “Dopamine plays a critical role in motivation, desire, and drive, and is deeply connected to attention and focus issues associated with ADHD. People with ADHD often have difficulty focusing on general tasks but can hyper-focus on topics of interest due to how their brain’s dopamine pathways function” – (Huberman, 2023) The Brain-Gut Axis and ADHD The brain and gut communicate through a system called the brain-gut axis, which regulates many of our emotional and cognitive functions. This connection plays a significant role in how we think, feel, and focus (Cryan & Dinan, 2012). Individuals with ADHD often face challenges in regulating their attention and emotions, and supporting gut health has been shown to positively influence brain function in these areas (Huberman, 2023). I wasn’t always excited about eating healthy, to be honest. During my fighting career as a professional Muay Thai fighter and Boxer, I focused on cutting weight and building strength, which pushed me to change my eating habits. Over time, I noticed not just physical improvements, but a mental shift. My energy levels became more consistent, and I felt mentally sharper. Now, even though I’ve stepped back from fighting to focus further on alternate, professional aspirations (AKA. part of the reason I’m writing this), I still strive to eat well. I feel the difference, and it keeps me grounded and efficient, which is a big deal for someone as hyper as I am! #1 – Natural Biohacking: Improve ADHD & Focus with Probiotics and Prebiotics One of the easiest ways to improve both gut and brain health is through nutrition. The gut is home to trillions of bacteria that help regulate neurotransmitters like serotonin and dopamine, which play a key role in mood, attention, and behaviour (Tillisch et al., 2013). For people with ADHD, these neurotransmitters often operate less efficiently, leading to emotional highs and lows and difficulty concentrating. Consuming probiotic-rich foods like yoghurt, kefir, and fermented vegetables introduces healthy bacteria into the gut, while prebiotic foods such as garlic, onions, and bananas provide the fibre needed to nourish those bacteria (David et al., 2014). Together, these can help stabilise the brain-gut axis, potentially improving focus and reducing hyperactivity. #2 – Nutrients That Support ADHD Focus Diet is foundational in managing ADHD, and certain nutrients play a critical role in supporting focus and mental clarity. Amino acids, such as L-theanine (found in green tea) and tryptophan (present in turkey and nuts), help synthesise neurotransmitters that regulate mood and attention (Fernstrom, 2013). I’ve found that regularly consuming amino acids has kept me feeling more centred—both when I was in the ring and now, in the office. Omega-3 fatty acids, abundant in fatty fish like salmon, have been shown to reduce symptoms of hyperactivity and support cognitive function in children and adults with ADHD (Swanson et al., 2012). Including these in your diet can create a foundation for improved mental clarity and better control over impulsive behaviours. #3 – Environmental Biohacks: The Power of Light and Temperature Beyond food, certain environmental biohacks can have a profound effect on brain function. Dr. Andrew Huberman, a neuroscientist, emphasises the importance of morning sunlight for regulating our circadian rhythm—the body’s internal clock. When aligned, this rhythm improves sleep quality and enhances daytime focus (Huberman, 2023). For those with ADHD, better sleep means better attention and emotional regulation. I try to get some sunlight every morning, and when I do, I feel noticeably sharper throughout the day. Additionally, cold exposure, like cold showers or ice baths, is a rising biohack that boosts norepinephrine, a neurotransmitter known to improve focus and elevate mood (Huberman, 2023). #4 – Social Connection and Mindfulness: Sky-rocketing Neuroplasticity ADHD isn’t just about managing focus; it’s also about emotional regulation and stress management. That’s where social connection and mindfulness come into play. Engaging in meaningful social activities can help reduce stress and support a healthy gut environment, which is vital for cognitive function and emotional balance (Dispenza, 2022). Mindfulness practices, such as meditation or breathwork, can also improve gut health and reduce cortisol levels, the body’s primary stress hormone (Creswell et al., 2012). I’ve found that incorporating breathwork into my routine has been one of the best ways to calm my hyperactive mind. It might sound counterintuitive, but taking a few minutes to slow down and focus on breathing can make a world of difference. Rather than seeing ADHD as a deficit, these techniques offer a way to channel its traits, like creativity and hyper-focus, into powerful tools for success. Just as my training and diet changes helped me not only strengthen my body but also sharpen my mental focus, small adjustments in lifestyle can transform ADHD into a mental performance superpower. With the right strategies and natural biohacking, you and I can improve focus, productivity and creativity with ADHD —turning what many see as a challenge into a distinct advantage. Share your thoughts in the comments! OR, if
Neuroplasticity Strategies for a Growth Mindset: How to Overcome Life’s Challenges
“… This mindset helps the brain rewire itself and supports you around challenges like ADHD, anxiety and stress… ” Every session I have with clients touches on one pivotal concept: neuroplasticity—the brain’s ability to change and reorganise itself. It’s the foundation for overcoming obstacles like ADHD, stress, and anxiety, and for cultivating a growth mindset. Neuroplasticity helps us rise above difficulties and climb the mountain of personal growth. In the past five years, groundbreaking research has proven that we can actively reshape our brains to not just survive but thrive. This powerful ability is the key to unlocking personal development and building mental resilience in today’s world. Neuroplasticity and Growth Mindset: The Science Behind Change and Strategies for Overcoming Challenges I’ve spoken about this before, and it will never become old (literally!). Neuroplasticity is the brain’s capacity to form new neural connections, supporting learning and adaptation throughout life. Now, to expand… A growth mindset—believing in one’s ability to improve—activates this potential. While a fixed mindset views intelligence and abilities as static, a growth mindset encourages effort and learning from setbacks leading to neuroplasticity (Dweck, 2016). Recent studies reinforce these concepts. For example, a 2020 review highlights the role of neuroplasticity in managing cognitive conditions like ADHD and other executive function challenges (Fields, 2020). Neuroplasticity-based interventions, like the ones I apply in my practice, such as mindfulness and cognitive training, have been shown to strengthen neural pathways that support focus, emotional regulation, and resilience (Linden, 2021). By applying these neuroplasticity strategies, you can foster a growth mindset to overcome challenges and thrive. Growth Mindset in Real-World Contexts: Progression Through Challenges Adopting a growth mindset can help individuals navigate various challenges in their lives, whether they are dealing with ADHD or facing stress at work. The brain’s neuroplastic abilities allow people to create new ways of thinking and reacting to stress. The key is consistent practice. A recent article in Frontiers in Psychology (2022) found that individuals who regularly engage in mindfulness and goal-setting practices show greater emotional resilience and stress management capabilities, as their brain’s adaptability helps them navigate change and adversity (Jiang et al., 2022). One of the core aspects of a growth mindset is viewing failure as an opportunity for learning, rather than a stopping point. A 2021 study on students with ADHD showed that those who adopted a growth mindset experienced improvements in their academic performance and emotional regulation, particularly in relation to overcoming learning difficulties (Yeager et al., 2021). By embracing neuroplasticity as a mechanism for growth, people can transform challenges into stepping stones for personal and professional progress. How to Harness Neuroplasticity in Your Own Life To cultivate a growth mindset and enhance brain adaptability, it’s essential to embrace challenges, learn from feedback, and persist through setbacks. Here’s how you can apply these principles, supported by recent neuroscience: Journalling for Neuroplasticity: How to Strengthen Your Brain As someone who journals regularly, I’ve found it to be an invaluable tool for fostering neuroplasticity and a growth mindset—helping me navigate my big city move and support my professional practice. My focus is on three key areas: gratitude, goal-setting, and affirmations. Here’s how these practices reshape the brain, backed by science: With these strategies, why not aim to live with purpose? Neuroplasticity is the foundation for personal development through a growth mindset. By engaging in practices such as mindfulness, physical activity, and journalling, you can rewire your brain to overcome challenges and thrive. Whether you’re managing ADHD or simply striving for self-improvement, understanding and applying neuroplasticity offers a pathway to continuous growth and resilience. I’m a big fan of a growth mindset! Are you? Share your thoughts in the comments, check out my YouTube video and don’t be a stranger! If you need support or want to book a free consultation, reach out directly to gabrielle@onpointpsychotherapy.com. I’m also contactable via phone and WhatsApp at +61 466 160 115, and on Instagram @gabrielle_onpoint. I look forward to hearing about your unique stories! 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Neuroplasticity and its implications for psychotherapy: How the brain changes during the therapeutic process. Psychological Medicine, 51(2), (pp. 214-224). https://doi.org/10.1017/S0033291720000385 Locke, E. A., & Latham, G. P. (2019). Goal-setting theory: Clarifying human motivation and behaviour. Organisational Behaviour and Human Decision Processes, 50(2), (pp. 212-247). https://doi.org/10.1016/j.obhdp.2019.06.003 Yeager, D. S., Hanselman, P., Walton, G. M., Murray, J. S., Crosnoe, R., Muller, C., Tipton, E., Schneider, B., Hulleman, C. S., & Hinojosa, C. P. (2021). A national experiment reveals where a growth mindset improves achievement. Nature, 573(7774), (pp. 364-369). https://doi.org/10.1038/s41586-019-1466-y Gabrielle-Beth VolovskyPsychotherapy and Counselling ProfessionalCertified PACFA Counsellor
Do You Have a Mental Health Diagnosis? Evolving Beyond Labels & Stigma via Neuroplasticity
Have you ever been diagnosed with anxiety or depression? Maybe you’ve taken an online quiz that told you you have ADHD or dyslexia. At first, these labels can bring a sense of relief or even direction—finally, an explanation for what you’ve been feeling. But have you ever stopped to wonder: How permanent are these labels? As we grow and change, could these diagnoses shift along with us? In a world where we’re constantly evolving, can any single diagnosis really capture the full picture of who we are? While diagnoses can offer clarity, they also raise important questions about how we see ourselves. With our growing understanding of the brain’s ability to change, it’s worth exploring whether mental health diagnoses should be viewed as lifelong labels or simply as temporary tools. More importantly, how can we adopt a growth-oriented and trauma-informed approach to mental health—one that empowers us to evolve beyond the labels and fully embrace our potential for change? Get ready and hang on tight, as I dive into the pros and cons of mental health diagnoses, discuss the controversy surrounding the DSM, and explore this more dynamic approach to mental well-being. The Benefits of Mental Health Diagnoses The Drawbacks of Mental Health Diagnoses Trauma-Informed Care and the DSM We Are Always Evolving: A Case for Growth The Benefits of Mental Health Diagnoses The Drawbacks of Mental Health Diagnoses While there are undeniable benefits to diagnoses, they can also come with serious downsides—especially when people begin to over-identify with these labels. Mental Health, Trauma-Informed Care and the DSM: Avoiding Diagnosis Stigma with Neuroplasticity The DSM has also been critiqued for not adequately addressing the role of trauma in mental health. Trauma-informed care emphasises understanding and responding to the effects of trauma, which often manifest in ways that don’t fit neatly into the DSM’s diagnostic categories (Allsopp et al., 2019). This emerging approach focuses less on labelling and more on understanding the individual’s lived experience and how trauma may be influencing their mental health. Trauma-informed care shifts the focus from ‘What’s wrong with you?’ to ‘What experiences have shaped your journey?’—a more compassionate and holistic way of viewing mental health struggles. This approach not only reduces the stigma often associated with a mental health diagnosis, but it also aligns with the principles of neuroplasticity, encouraging healing and recovery as ongoing processes, rather than fixed states. It emphasises understanding the root causes of mental health struggles, often linked to trauma, and promotes healing through empathy and understanding (Allsopp et al., 2019). We Are Always Evolving: A Case for Growth The truth is, we are constantly changing. The human brain is malleable and capable of significant growth and adaptation throughout our lives, thanks to neuroplasticity. With this knowledge, it’s essential to see mental health diagnoses as temporary guides rather than permanent labels. Neuroscience now shows that with the right interventions—such as therapy, self-compassion, and lifestyle changes—people can reshape their neural pathways and develop healthier patterns of thinking and behaviour (Davidson & McEwen, 2015). Diagnoses as Guides, Not Definitions As research continues to evolve, so too must our understanding of mental health. With growing emphasis on personalised approaches and the dynamic nature of the brain, the future of mental health care looks promising. Diagnoses should guide treatment, but they should never limit growth. By embracing a trauma-informed, growth-oriented approach, we can help individuals transcend labels and fully realise their capacity for change. Have you been caught up in these debates regarding diagnoses before? Do these points resonate with you? Let us know! Also, if you need support or want to book a free consultation, reach out directly to gabrielle@onpointpsychotherapy.com. I’m also contactable via phone and WhatsApp at +61 466 160 115, and on Instagram @gabrielle_onpoint. I look forward to hearing from you! References Allsopp, K., Read, J., Corcoran, R., & Kinderman, P. (2019). Heterogeneity in psychiatric diagnostic classification. Psychiatry Research, 279, (pp. 15-22). https://doi.org/10.1016/j.psychres.2019.07.005 Burnette, J. L., O’Boyle, E. H., VanEpps, E. M., Pollack, J. M., & Finkel, E. J. (2019). Mindsets matter: A meta-analytic review of implicit theories and self-regulation. Psychological Bulletin, 145(5), (pp. 539-560). https://doi.org/10.1037/bul0000193 Cipriani, A., Furukawa, T. A., Salanti, G., Chaimani, A., Atkinson, L. Z., Ogawa, Y., … & Geddes, J. R. (2018). 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Healing Mental Health: Neuroplasticity, ADHD and Personality Disorders
Did you know that approximately 15-20% of the global population is neurodivergent, including individuals with ADHD, autism, or dyslexia? (Baumer & Frueh, 2021). Yet, many people feel confined by these diagnoses due to societal stigma and internalised labels, which often lead to lower self-esteem, reduced self-worth, and a risk of further mental health decline (Corrigan & Watson, 2002; Livingston & Boyd, 2010). However, science now tells us that these diagnoses don’t have to define you. Emerging research on neuroplasticity shows that our brains are far more adaptable than we once thought, offering real potential for transition through challenges. The Challenge of Labels: Neurodivergence, ADHD and Personality Disorders Neurodivergence, including ADHD, ASD, and dyslexia, challenges traditional societal and cognitive expectations. While these diagnoses offer clarity, they often bring stigma, limiting individuals’ growth. Stigma tends to pathologise natural cognitive differences, restricting opportunities for those diagnosed with neurodivergence (Raymaker et al., 2020; Egambaram et al., 2022). Similarly, personality disorders like BPD come with unique challenges. Many individuals with BPD feel that their diagnosis overshadows their identity, contributing to the perception of their condition as a “life sentence.” Research shows that professionals sometimes hesitate to work with BPD patients due to perceived difficulties, reinforcing limiting stereotypes (Gunderson, 2018). These labels can become self-fulfilling prophecies, not only for individuals but within the mental health system itself. The true challenge lies not in the diagnoses themselves but in the limitations imposed by labels. Neuroplasticity offers a pathway to overcome these constraints, allowing individuals to reshape their mental health and emotional experiences, fostering growth and adaptation. Neuroplasticity: The Science of Change in Mental Health, ADHD & Personality Disorders Neuroplasticity refers to the brain’s ability to reorganise and form new neural pathways, offering hope for those with conditions like ADHD, autism, and BPD. The brain is adaptable, capable of change and healing (Davidson & McEwen, 2015). This understanding is crucial for shifting away from a fixed mindset about mental health diagnoses. For neurodivergent individuals, neuroplasticity aids in improving executive functioning and emotional regulation. I’ve seen clients with ADHD make significant progress through cognitive-behavioural therapy (CBT) and mindfulness. These methods help rewire the brain’s pathways for better focus and attention (Zylowska et al., 2019). Additionally, for those with BPD, dialectical behaviour therapy (DBT) is transformative, activating neuroplasticity in areas of the brain related to emotional regulation (Schaefer et al., 2021). Neuroplasticity isn’t just theoretical—it unfolds in real-world therapy, showing that clients aren’t trapped by their mental health diagnoses (i.e. ADHD, Personality Disorders) but are capable of change. Shifting the Lens: From Fixed Labels to Growth Potential In my work, I’ve seen how a fixed mindset regarding diagnoses can limit individuals and professionals alike. Too often, the focus is on what’s “wrong” with a person rather than on their potential for change. This limited viewpoint can delay recovery and reinforce stigma. It’s crucial that, as mental health professionals, we adopt a growth-oriented perspective. When working with clients, I emphasise that a diagnosis is not a fixed definition of who they are, but rather an opportunity to understand how the brain functions and where growth can occur. One client, a young woman diagnosed with BPD, initially felt defined by her condition. Over time, through DBT and mindfulness, she began to recognise her progress—slowing down, understanding her emotional episodes in real time, and calming herself more quickly. This shift allowed her to communicate more effectively with those around her, including me, which was a significant breakthrough. This shift in perspective—seeing mental health conditions as dynamic and treatable—opens the door to recovery. As professionals, we need to convey this message of hope to our clients, helping them understand that the brain is capable of evolving. For those with neurodivergence or personality disorders, embracing the concept of neuroplasticity can be liberating, replacing the weight of stigma with the freedom of possibility. Practical Strategies for Engaging Neuroplasticity For clients living with neurodivergence or personality disorders, there are actionable steps that can engage neuroplasticity and support brain change: Living with a mental health diagnosis like ADHD, autism, or a personality disorder can be challenging, but it also presents opportunities for growth by way of neuroplasticity. Through neuroplasticity, individuals can strengthen their brain’s capacity to adapt, fostering resilience and the ability to navigate difficulties more effectively. Rather than viewing these diagnoses as barriers, neuroplasticity supports the development of new coping strategies, emotional regulation, and healthier patterns of thinking. The research and literature say it all! What are your thoughts on this? Subscribe, comment or reach out directly to gabrielle@onpointpsychotherapy.com. Contact me via phone, or WhatsApp at +61 466 160 115, and on Instagram @gabrielle_onpoint. 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Mastering The Benefits of Solitude, FoMO, & Loneliness: A Guide to Thriving Alone
In a world that’s always ‘on,’ where social connections are celebrated and we’re constantly plugged into the digital noise, solitude often gets a bad rap. It’s all too easy to confuse being alone with feeling lonely. Solitude though, when embraced, can be a superpower! It’s a chance to recharge, grow, and reconnect with yourself. Want to learn what the difference is between solitude and loneliness? Continue reading, watch this video and learn how time spent on your own can be transformative and one of your greatest sources of strength and well-being! The Science of Solitude & Well-Being Recent research highlights that solitude, when embraced voluntarily, can lead to significant psychological benefits. The study by Weinstein and colleagues in 2023, demonstrates that there is no “one-size-fits-all” balance between solitude and socialising. Instead, well-being depends on how solitude is perceived and whether it’s chosen autonomously. The study found that when individuals chose solitude for self-reflection or relaxation, they experienced less stress and greater life satisfaction. However, solitude that felt imposed or prolonged led to loneliness and dissatisfaction (Weinstein et al., 2023). Furthermore, another recent study by Liu and colleagues in 2023, explored how different types of solitude—self-determined and non-self-determined—affect mental health through the lens of Fear of Missing Out (FoMO). Positive solitude, where individuals engage in alone time for personal growth, was associated with reduced stress and increased autonomy. In contrast, non-self-determined solitude, such as social avoidance, contributed to heightened FoMO, leading to higher levels of anxiety and depression (Liu et al., 2023). These findings underscore a crucial point: the way we approach solitude shapes its impact on our mental health. If solitude is embraced as a time for growth, creativity, and self-compassion, it can become your powerful ally in well-being. From Anxiety to Empowerment Solitude wasn’t always easy for me. During Melbourne’s strict COVID-19 lockdown in 2020, I felt confined both physically and emotionally. The 5km restriction kept me from seeing my family, and I was also dealing with crippling anxiety. Before the pandemic, my life was filled with constant coaching, fight training, and dieting to cut weight. The stress took a toll—rashes appeared on my neck, I shook in the mornings, and my chest was constantly tight. Lockdown forced me to confront solitude, and I started journalling, even though it felt uncomfortable at first. I wrote down my goals, affirmations, and gratitude, trying to focus on the neuroscience-backed benefits I’d proactively learnt about. Slowly, this helped build my self-esteem and rewired my focus toward positivity. Along with journalling, I began practicing mindfulness, starting with just a few minutes of breathwork (‘box-breathing’) each day. Over time, what I once (completely!) dreaded became my refuge. I learned to embrace solitude, using it as a time for self-reflection and mental clarity. Now, solitude is a key part of my life – It’s my empowerment tool for growth and balance. This journey taught me that with intention and a positive mindset, solitude can lead to emotional resilience and self-discovery. The Positive Power of Reframing Solitude: Mastering The Benefits, & Kicking FoMO & Loneliness The research supports what I experienced firsthand: reframing solitude can make all the difference. A 2023 study by Rodriguez and colleagues in 2023 found that individuals who reframed solitude positively experienced increased relaxation and lower stress levels. The study suggested that viewing alone time as beneficial helped individuals—especially those prone to loneliness—experience solitude in a restorative way (Rodriguez et al., 2023). This mindset shift can be cultivated through practical strategies such as: Embracing Solitude in a Hyper-Connected World In a society that celebrates constant connectivity, solitude can often feel like an empty space we’re desperate to fill. Yet, it offers something priceless—a chance to reconnect with ourselves. By viewing alone time as an opportunity for growth, creativity, and self-compassion, we can shift our mindset and turn solitude into a powerful source of strength. The key is in the perspective. Whether through journalling, mindfulness, or simply taking time for yourself, solitude becomes your ally, not something to fear. Solitude is an act of self-care. As I’ve learned through my own journey, both professionally and personally, embracing solitude with the right mindset can transform your mental and emotional well-being. By mastering the benefits of solitude, FoMO, and loneliness, you can shift your perspective to thrive emotionally and mentally, using solitude as a powerful tool for growth and self-discovery. If you’re ready to embrace solitude (and your well-being) in all the glory, or want to shift your perspective on alone time, I’m here to help. Reach out to me on Instagram, TikTok, or directly at gabrielle@onpointpsychotherapy.com. You can also visit my website at On Point Psychotherapy. Let’s connect! References Liu, X., Liu, T., Zhou, Z., & Wan, F. (2023). The effect of fear of missing out on mental health: Differences in different solitude behaviors. BMC Psychology, 11(141), (pp. 1-8). https://doi.org/10.1186/s40359-023-01184-5 Rodriguez, M., Pratt, S., Bellet, B. W., & McNally, R. J. (2023). Solitude can be good—If you see it as such: Reappraisal helps lonely people experience solitude more positively. Journal of Personality, (pp. 1-18). https://doi.org/10.1111/jopy.12887 Thomas, V. (2021). Solitude skills and the private self. Qualitative Psychology, 10(1), (pp. 121-139). https://doi.org/10.1037/qup0000218 Weinstein, N., Vuorre, M., Adams, M., & Nguyen, T.-V. (2023). Balance between solitude and socializing: Everyday solitude time both benefits and harms well-being. Scientific Reports, 13(21160). https://doi.org/10.1038/s41598-023-44507-7 Gabrielle-Beth VolovskyPsychotherapy and Counselling ProfessionalCertified PACFA Counsellor
The Neuroscience of Rolling with the Punches: A Fighter’s Guide to Anxiety Management
In the ring, there’s no time for doubt. As a pro Muay Thai fighter, I’ve faced countless opponents, each one testing my physical limits and mental resilience. But what many don’t realise is that stepping into the ring is not just a physical challenge—it’s a mental one, 90% mental as my coach would say. The lessons I’ve learned in the fight world have profoundly shaped the way I manage anxiety, and as a psychotherapist, I’ve found that these same lessons can be applied to everyday life. Here, I blend cutting-edge neuroscience with personal insights from my fight career to share how you can build resilience, manage anxiety, and develop emotional intelligence. Let’s dig deep into the science of neuroplasticity, use analogies like rolling with the punches, and explore what it means to step into the ring of life with grit and determination. Neuroplasticity: Your Brain’s Ski Slope As we know, I am a major advocate for neuroplasticity, and I can’t emphasise enough how much the brain is like a muscle. Just like you train your body, you can train your mind to respond to stress and anxiety differently. Neuroscientist Andrew Huberman has often spoken about how repeated exposures to stressful situations can rewire the brain’s neural circuits, especially those involved in the amygdala and prefrontal cortex (Van Dis et al., 2020). Essentially, the more we face discomfort and manage it, the more resilient we become. Going to the gym, building muscle and enhancing mobility is inevitably correlated with a tough ride, aches and pains – though it is the desired outcome and personal dreams that make it all worth it, mentally and physically. Here’s where I like to use the ski slope analogy (you don’t need to have experience skiing to understand – I don’t). Imagine your brain is a fresh slope, and every time you react to anxiety, you carve a path. The more you practice positive coping mechanisms—whether through mindfulness, breathwork, or CBT—the more you strengthen new paths and let the old, anxiety-ridden paths fade. Actionable Tip: Next time you feel anxiety coming on, visualise it as an opportunity to practice carving a new path on that slope. It’s not about avoiding anxiety but mastering it through practice, knowing that with consistency, you can evolve in the direction you desire. Stepping Into the Ring: Building Grit and Resilience One of the most powerful lessons I’ve learned as a fighter is the importance of grit. Every time I stepped into the ring, I had to check in with myself, knowing that I couldn’t control my opponent’s actions, only my own response. This is where the concept of rolling with the punches comes in. In Muay Thai (and boxing), you’re constantly adapting, learning to take hits without losing focus. This same mindset is crucial for managing anxiety. Psychologist Angela Duckworth defines grit as the passion and perseverance for long-term goals, and in many ways, anxiety management is no different (Duckworth, 2016). Resilience isn’t about avoiding tough situations, but about how we respond to them. In fact, research shows that resilience-building activities, like exposure to moderate stressors, can enhance emotional regulation and grit (Curtiss et al., 2019). The more you step into the “ring” of life and face challenges, the more you’ll develop resilience and the ability to adapt under pressure. Actionable Tip: When you’re feeling anxious, treat it like stepping into the ring. You may not be able to control the situation, but you can control your reaction. Use breathwork and mindfulness as your defense mechanism, and remind yourself that every ‘hit’ is building your emotional strength. Emotional Intelligence: Checking In with Yourself Emotional intelligence (EQ) is another skill I’ve honed both as a fighter and a therapist. In the ring, you have to stay present, aware of your emotions, and prevent frustration from clouding your judgment. Emotional intelligence, according to Daniel Goleman, involves self-awareness, self-regulation, motivation, empathy, and social skills (Goleman, 1995). When anxiety strikes, it’s easy to lose sight of your emotional center, but being present and checking in with yourself—just like you would before a fight—can help you stay grounded. Recent research highlights how mindfulness-based interventions (MBIs) are effective at improving emotional intelligence, particularly in managing anxiety and stress (Fumero et al., 2020). Mindfulness teaches us to observe our emotions without judgment, making it easier to navigate difficult feelings. Actionable Tip: The next time anxiety hits, practice mindfulness by “checking in” with yourself. Ask, “What am I feeling?” and “How can I respond?” rather than reacting impulsively. Rolling with the Punches: The Neuroscience of Anxiety Management One of the most powerful lessons I’ve learned as a fighter is the importance of grit. Every time I stepped into the ring, I had to check in with myself, knowing that I couldn’t control my opponent’s actions, only my own response. This is where the concept of rolling with the punches comes in. In Muay Thai, you’re constantly adapting, learning to take hits without losing focus. This same mindset is crucial for managing anxiety. Psychologist Angela Duckworth defines grit as the passion and perseverance for long-term goals, and in many ways, anxiety management is no different (Duckworth, 2016). Resilience isn’t about avoiding tough situations, but about how we respond to them. In fact, research shows that resilience-building activities, like exposure to moderate stressors, can enhance emotional regulation and grit (Curtiss et al., 2019). The more you step into the “ring” of life, in front of that crowd, and face challenges, the more you’ll develop resilience and the ability to adapt under pressure. Actionable Tip: When you’re feeling anxious, treat it like stepping into the ring. You may not be able to control the situation, but you can control your reaction. Use breathwork and mindfulness as your defense mechanism, and remind yourself that every hit is building your emotional strength. A Fighter’s Guide to Life and Anxiety Managing anxiety is a lot like stepping into the ring: it’s about showing up, staying present, and rolling with the punches. The brain,
Confidence & Mental Health: The Multilayered Foundation of Personal and Professional Success
Confidence is often considered the invisible yet essential currency for success in both personal and professional spheres. It influences the way individuals perceive themselves and how others respond to them. Research from psychology and neuroscience reveals that confidence is more than just a feeling; it is a dynamic, learnable skill embedded within the conscious and unconscious mind (Fleming, 2024; Robertson, 2021). Why does confidence matter? What are the psychological layers underpinning it? What are strategies to cultivate it? Why Confidence Matters: How it is Related to Mental Health and Success Confidence plays a critical role in goal-setting, resilience, and interpersonal interactions. It allows individuals to manage uncertainty and face challenges with the belief that they can achieve favorable outcomes (Robertson, 2021). Studies show that high self-confidence not only improves task performance but also facilitates decision-making and reduces stress. Without confidence, even the most competent individuals may hesitate, undermining their potential for success (Fleming, 2024). Moreover, confidence operates cyclically; those with higher confidence levels tend to attract positive social feedback, reinforcing their self-belief and encouraging further growth (Robertson, 2021). This phenomenon reflects the self-fulfilling nature of confidence: success breeds more confidence, which in turn facilitates greater success. The Psychological Foundations of Confidence Confidence is multilayered, residing within both the conscious and unconscious mind. At the conscious level, it involves self-awareness, goal-setting, and performance monitoring—often referred to as metacognition. Metacognitive skills enable individuals to reflect on their strengths and weaknesses, enhancing their ability to perform confidently (Fleming, 2024). At an unconscious level, psychodynamic theories suggest that confidence may be influenced by underlying self-concepts formed in early childhood. Carl Jung’s notion of the “persona” offers valuable insight here. The persona represents the social mask individuals present to the world, a constructed identity that often contrasts with the inner self (Jung, 1953/1971). Confidence, in many cases, involves stepping into this persona to manage societal expectations and perform roles effectively. This dynamic highlights how confidence can sometimes feel like an alter ego—an adaptive strategy to navigate social challenges. Personal Experience: The Art of Faking Confidence As a former professional Muay Thai fighter, I vividly recall how confidence was not just a mental state but a deliberate action. Entering the ring, I carried myself with what others called a “poker face”—a calm, somewhat composed expression that concealed any inner concerns I was having. This wasn’t just about appearing strong; it was an alter ego I adopted, a persona designed to protect and empower me, helping me create a strong inner dialogue, which became the foundational underpinnings of my fierceness and fearlessness. This practice extended into my professional life, where societal expectations surrounding gender and youth often influenced how people responded to me. Being young and female meant navigating implicit biases, making confidence even more crucial. Observing others’ reactions and adjusting my behavior became a subtle yet essential skill. Over time, this deliberate “manipulation” of confidence evolved into genuine self-belief—a process known as the “fake it until you make it” phenomenon. Who Has Confidence, and Can It Be Learned? Confidence is not innate but can be developed and strengthened through practice and intentional effort. Research shows that confidence-building involves setting small, achievable goals and celebrating progress, which reinforces positive self-beliefs (Robertson, 2021). Additionally, the neuroscience of neuroplasticity suggests that the brain can rewire itself through repeated experiences, enabling individuals to cultivate confidence over time (Fleming, 2024). Authentic confidence requires intentional practice, built through conscious strategies and deeper psychological insights. This framework offers research-based techniques from Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), psychodynamic approaches, and neuroscience to transform self-doubt into sustainable self-assurance. Confidence is not a static trait but a dynamic, multifaceted skill that can be developed through conscious practice and introspection. Confidence plays a crucial role in personal and professional success, influencing the way individuals interact with the world, manage challenges and navigate mental health. From adopting a persona to mastering metacognitive skills, confidence offers a pathway to achieving one’s full potential. I, for one, know the act of “faking” confidence can be a powerful catalyst for genuine self-belief, unlocking new levels of growth and fulfillment. What strategies have you found effective in boosting your self-confidence? Share your thoughts in the comment! OR, if you need support or want to book a free phone consultation, reach out directly to gabrielle@onpointpsychotherapy.com. I’m also contactable via phone and WhatsApp at +61 466 160 115, and on Instagram @gabrielle_onpoint. I look forward to hearing about your unique stories! References Fleming, S. M. (2024). Metacognition and confidence: A review and synthesis. Annual Review of Psychology, 75(1), (11.1-11.28). https://doi.org/10.1146/annurev-psych-022423-032425 Jung, C. G. (1971). Psychological types (R.F.C. Hull, Trans.). Princeton University Press. (Original work published 1953) Robertson, I. (2021). How confidence works: The new science of self-belief, why some people learn it and others don’t. Center for BrainHealth. Retrieved from https://centerforbrainhealth.org Gabrielle-Beth VolovskyPsychotherapy and Counselling ProfessionalCertified PACFA Counsellor
The Healing Power of Breath: Trauma, Mental Health & Breathwork
Did You Know? The Inhale Breath and Exhale Breath Have Completely Different Effects on Your Body and Mind 💨 Breathing—the process of taking air into and expelling it from the lungs (Oxford Languages, n.d.). It’s an action that most of us are fortunate to perform automatically, involuntarily, and without conscious thought. But what happens when we attune to this air as it moves in and out of us? What effect do each of these breaths have on our body and mind? The distinct effects of inhale and exhale breaths create a physiological balance that plays a key role in emotional resilience. Deep inhales activate the sympathetic nervous system, preparing us for action, while the exhale triggers the parasympathetic system, calming and grounding us. This powerful rhythm creates a natural cycle within our autonomic nervous system, allowing us to influence our mental and physical state with each breath. Through the lens of neuroscience, intentional breathing becomes a tool that enables us to tap into the body’s mechanisms for self-regulation and recovery. Neuroscientists, including Dr Andrew Huberman, highlight the power of prolonged exhalation for reducing stress—a vital tool for anyone dealing with trauma or heightened anxiety (Huberman, 2023). The Neuroscience of Breath: A Direct Path to Calm and Control Breathing links directly with brain areas that regulate our stress responses, such as the brainstem, amygdala, and hypothalamus. Research published in Scientific Reports reveals how slow, rhythmic breathing activates neural pathways responsible for emotional regulation (Sattler & Simon, 2022). By controlling our breath, we engage with our body’s natural ability to manage stress and trauma, offering a profound therapeutic advantage that complements traditional mental health approaches. Dr Stephen Porges’ polyvagal theory also shows how slow, controlled breathing stimulates the vagus nerve, our body’s “reset” button, helping shift us from a reactive “fight-or-flight” mode to a balanced state (Porges, 2011). This shift is particularly beneficial for trauma survivors, who often live in a state of hypervigilance due to past experiences. BUSTING MYTHS: Breathwork, Trauma & Mental Health Breathwork isn’t merely a wellness trend or a quick fix for relaxation; it’s a science-backed approach with substantial benefits for regulating the nervous system and supporting trauma recovery. While breathwork is sometimes dismissed as “just breathing,” research demonstrates its profound impact on both the brain and body. Trauma and anxiety often disrupt natural breathing, triggering shallow, chest-centered patterns that mirror a fight-or-flight response. Structured techniques, such as the “physiological sigh” and box breathing, counteract these patterns by promoting deeper, slower breaths that calm the nervous system. These techniques not only alleviate anxiety but also help individuals regain a sense of physical and emotional control, making them ideal for grounding in distressing moments. Trauma specialists like Dr Bessel van der Kolk describe how trauma is “stored” in the body, and trauma-informed breathwork offers a pathway to restore calm and safety by helping individuals expand the shallow breaths often present in those with PTSD, anxiety, and other maladaptive states (van der Kolk, 2015; Schwartz, 2024). My Journey with Breathwork: Discovering the Depth of Yoga Nidra and NSDR Initially, I was hesitant to bring breathwork fully into sessions with clients, unsure of its effects. But as I introduced box breathing and gentle diaphragmatic breathing, I saw clients embrace it, becoming visibly more relaxed and grounded. Their positive response encouraged me to deepen my own breathwork practices and reflect on my own experiences. What has recently stood out to me is the “fullness” and “emptiness” in each breath hold— the states we rarely notice, yet which can be powerfully healing. For me, breathwork is more than structured techniques like box breathing or controlled diaphragmatic breathing; it’s also about the profound rest and awareness gained through practices like Yoga Nidra and NSDR (Non-Sleep Deep Rest). Unlike traditional meditation, Yoga Nidra guides the mind into a state of restful awareness, allowing both mind and body to relax deeply, and is thus often done lying down. Neuroscientists, including Huberman, advocate for NSDR as a powerful tool for cognitive recovery and resilience (Huberman, 2023). Incorporating Yoga Nidra, I found that even a brief 5-, 10-, or 15- minute session can be rejuvenating. Recently, while recovering from the flu, I practised NSDR daily, and there was a part of me that seemed “recharged”, even though I didn’t yet fully feel it myself. Reflecting on this observation, I realised that NSDR brought a clarity and coffee-like energy boost. If you’re curious to explore breathwork further, I do recommend Yoga Nidra or NSDR. Even just a few minutes each day can bring an incredible sense of rest and recharging. I’m not always able to sit through a full session (I aim for 20 minutes), and that’s totally OK! Consistency matters more than perfection here—each session is an opportunity to reconnect with yourself, welcoming whatever comes up without judgement. Science-Backed Breathing Techniques You Can Start Today If you’re looking to experience breathwork’s benefits, here are four proven techniques that help manage stress, enhance emotional control and support trauma recovery. These strategies can be interwoven into your mindful practices (i.e. meditation, Yoga Nidra etc.) and can help you build resilience over time with consistent practice. Tip #1 – The Physiological Sigh The physiological sigh, popularised by Dr Huberman, involves taking a deep inhale through the nose, adding a second, shorter inhale to expand the lungs fully, and following with a slow, controlled exhale. This technique is effective for immediate stress relief, quickly activating the body’s relaxation response (Huberman, 2023). 💨 Try this breath in moments of high stress or anxiety for a quick, calming effect. Tip #2 – Coherent Breathing Coherent breathing, or “resonant breathing,” involves equal-length inhales and exhales, typically for 5-6 seconds each. This technique, highlighted in the Scientific Reports study, has been shown to enhance brain connectivity related to emotional control, making it a powerful tool for resilience (Sattler & Simon, 2022). 💨 Practising coherent breathing for just five minutes daily can create a sense of balance and synchronise the heart rate with brain activity. Tip #3 – 4-7-8
Harness Curiosity to Boost Creativity and Happiness: Science-Backed Benefits!
Are You Living Curiously Enough? Do you remember the last time you felt completely captivated by something new—a sunset, a podcast, or even a quirky fact about the universe? Curiosity is more than a fleeting feeling; it’s a powerful tool for creativity, personal growth, and life satisfaction. Recent studies suggest that curiosity doesn’t just make life more interesting—it rewires your brain, helps you flourish, and boosts overall happiness. In a world often driven by routines and to-do lists (maybe), curiosity offers a refreshing lens through which we can rediscover joy and inspiration. So, how can you use curiosity to transform your life? Let’s dig deep into the science and explore practical ways to cultivate this transformative mindset. The Neuroscience of Curiosity and Creativity Curiosity activates the brain’s reward system, releasing dopamine—the same chemical involved in motivation and pleasure. According to Dr. Andrew Huberman, curiosity is intricately linked to neuroplasticity, the brain’s ability to form and reorganise neural pathways. This rewiring not only enhances learning and memory but also fuels creative problem-solving. In a groundbreaking 2023 study published in Nature Neuroscience, researchers found that curiosity-driven learning boosts the retention of new information by engaging areas of the brain responsible for long-term memory and understanding. The study also noted that curiosity fosters a more flexible mindset, enabling people to approach challenges with openness and adaptability. Pairing curiosity with awe—a state of wonder often sparked by nature or profound human achievements—can amplify its benefits. A 2024 commentary in Frontiers in Psychology described how awe triggers a sense of vastness and curiosity, encouraging individuals to explore their surroundings and think more expansively. Actionable Tip #1: Add a Dose of Awe Why Curiosity is Key to Happiness: Benefits to Creativity According to Science! Happiness isn’t just about achieving goals; it’s about enjoying the journey. Martha Beck refers to this as “open-ended joy”—a state where the process itself becomes the reward. Dr. Laurie Santos, host of The Happiness Lab, explains that curiosity fosters gratitude (or otherwise posed as, delight!), a key driver of life satisfaction. By staying curious about the small moments in life, like the warmth of the sun or a stranger’s smile, we can experience richer, more meaningful emotions. Further studies (Plos One, 2022) show that curiosity enhances not just happiness but also generativity—a sense of purpose and care for future generations. This connection between curiosity and purpose is pivotal for long-term well-being. Actionable Tip #2: Practice Micro-Curiosity Curiosity as a Catalyst for Growth Curiosity isn’t just about seeking knowledge; it’s also about fostering resilience. Dr. Jordan B. Peterson often speaks of curiosity as a bridge between ambition and meaning. When we approach challenges with an exploratory mindset, we’re better equipped to overcome fear and build confidence. Curiosity also drives self-discovery. A 2022 paper in Frontiers in Psychology highlighted that individuals who scored high on curiosity reported greater life satisfaction and professional fulfillment. They actively sought out new perspectives, deepening their understanding of themselves and their purpose. Another fascinating insight comes from a 2024 article in Behavioral and Brain Sciences, which found that curiosity and creativity are complementary processes. While curiosity thrives on uncertainty and exploration, creativity is motivated by novelty, combining the two to fuel innovation. Actionable Tip #3: Be an Explorer From Curiosity to Connection Relationships thrive on curiosity. Vanessa Van Edwards, author of Cues, notes that genuine curiosity builds trust and empathy, strengthening bonds with others. When we ask thoughtful questions, we show that we value others’ perspectives, paving the way for deeper, more meaningful connections. Curiosity also helps us bridge differences. A 2024 commentary in Nature Communications discussed how curiosity fosters collaboration by encouraging openness to diverse viewpoints—a vital skill in today’s interconnected world. Whether in friendships or professional settings, curiosity can turn small talk into transformative conversations. Actionable Tip #4: Start a Curiosity Challenge Turning Curiosity Into a Daily Habit Cultivating curiosity isn’t a one-time effort; it’s a habit that grows stronger with practice. A 2024 study published in Frontiers in Public Health revealed that engaging in creative activities like journaling or crafting significantly boosts mental well-being. These activities, when done with a curious mindset, enhance problem-solving skills and provide a sense of accomplishment. Curiosity also acts as a buffer against stress. Dr. Huberman explains that curiosity shifts the brain from a fear response to a reward response, making challenges feel less daunting and more like opportunities. By embracing curiosity, we can reframe setbacks as learning experiences, fostering resilience and optimism. Actionable Tip #5: Turn Setbacks Into Lessons IN SHORT… As we step into 2025, curiosity is more relevant than ever. It offers science-backed benefits that fuel creativity, enhance happiness, and promote life satisfaction. Whether you’re gazing at the stars, starting a new project, or asking better questions, let curiosity guide you—it might just be the key to flourishing in your everyday life. To put this into action: Let curiosity shape your journey, and watch as it transforms your creativity, relationships, and happiness. The way we react and respond supersedes all. Reach out to me on Instagram, TikTok, or directly at gabrielle@onpointpsychotherapy.com. You can also visit my website at On Point Psychotherapy. I’m not just saying this; I want to hear from you!! I’m offering a free 15 minute consult for those who are keen to dig deep, dive in and explore their psycho-social tendencies. References Beck, M. (2021). The Way of Integrity. Huberman, A. (2023). Podcast: The Huberman Lab. Santos, L. (2021). Podcast: The Happiness Lab. Peterson, J. B. (2021). Beyond Order: 12 More Rules for Life. Van Edwards, V. (2022). Cues: Master the Secret Language of Charismatic Communication. Nature Neuroscience (2023). Curiosity-driven learning and memory. Frontiers in Public Health (2024). Creative activities and mental well-being. PLOS ONE (2022). Curiosity, generativity, and happiness. Behavioral and Brain Sciences (2024). Curiosity, uncertainty, and creativity. Gabrielle-Beth VolovskyPsychotherapy and Counselling ProfessionalCertified PACFA Counsellor
Reprogram Your Brain for Success: The Neuroscience of Discipline, Imagination & Happiness
Imagine standing at the edge of the ring, heart pounding, every muscle poised for action. As a professional Muay Thai fighter, this moment defined my reality countless times. But here’s the thing—it was my imagination, my mental preparation, and the routines I cultivated outside the ring that truly created those victorious outcomes. Science now supports what athletes, high achievers, and thought leaders have long understood: the brain doesn’t distinguish between what’s vividly imagined and what’s real. This phenomenon, combined with discipline, movement, and mindset, is the key to curating a life full of purpose, happiness, and achievement. Preview Your Brain, Your Reality: Reprogram with Neuroscience for Discipline and Success Neuroscientists like Dr Andrew Huberman emphasise that our brain operates as a prediction machine. When you vividly visualise a goal, your brain creates a mental map, triggering emotions and actions aligned with achieving that goal. Dr Joe Dispenza explains this further in his research, noting that our imagination activates the same neural pathways as actual experiences, which is why mental rehearsal is so powerful. For example, Olympic athletes use visualisation to mentally practise their routines, engaging their brain in ways that enhance muscle memory and focus. The brain doesn’t differentiate between practising a perfect kick in your mind or on the mat—it simply reinforces the pattern. Why Discipline Matters Brendan Burchard, a leading expert on high performance, describes discipline as the cornerstone of progress. Without discipline, even the clearest goals remain dreams. In a world filled with distractions, discipline acts as the guardrail, guiding us towards our envisioned reality. Mel Robbins, in her groundbreaking 5-Second Rule, underscores how discipline can override hesitation. That small window between thought and action determines whether you step into discomfort and growth or retreat into old patterns. As a fighter, discipline was my anchor. Early mornings, relentless training sessions, and nights spent reflecting on my goals through journalling—all of these practices fuelled not only my physical strength but also my mental resilience. The Mind-Body Connection Movement is more than exercise; it’s a way to reprogram your brain. Physical activity releases neurochemicals like dopamine, serotonin, and endorphins, which improve mood and increase focus. But there’s more—studies published in Nature Neuroscience reveal that movement activates the hippocampus, a brain region critical for memory and goal-setting. Additionally, a study by Ratey and Loehr (2020) highlights how structured exercise influences the brain’s ability to form new neural connections, a process known as neurogenesis. They emphasise that regular movement not only sharpens cognitive functions but also fosters emotional resilience. Routine exercise, whether it’s a shadowboxing session or a morning walk, creates a feedback loop of positive reinforcement. When paired with practices like meditation or reflective journalling, the brain builds resilience and strengthens neural pathways associated with clarity and purpose. Actionable Tips to Reprogram Your Brain The Power of Progress As per my consistent ramblings… Progress, not perfection! This is what fuels a fulfilling life. Whether it’s landing the perfect strike in Muay Thai or achieving a personal milestone, progress creates momentum. It reinforces our belief in our ability to shape our reality. Tom Bilyeu, co-founder of Quest Nutrition and host of the widely popular Impact Theory podcast, often highlights that control over one’s life comes from consistent alignment between imagination, discipline, and action. This alignment gives us the confidence to face challenges and the resilience to bounce back stronger. Living Your Best Life Living your best life means creating a feedback loop of imagination, discipline, movement, and reflection. We can reprogram the our brain through discipline, movement, and reflection, using neuroscience to shape our idealised reality and achieve success. As a fighter and counsellor, I’ve seen how the mind and body work together. Shadowboxing taught me discipline and the neuroscience of shaping reality, journalling gave me clarity, and movement grounded me. These practices fuel growth and purpose. Take that step—your imagination is your greatest ally. Pair it with action, and watch your best life unfold. Connect with me on Instagram, TikTok, YouTube, or directly at gabrielle@onpointpsychotherapy.com. Visit my website, On Point Psychotherapy, to book a free 15-minute consult and start learning more about yourself and moving towards a future that will feel more fulfilling for you! References Huberman, A. (2021). Huberman Lab Podcast: Using Vision & Goals to Drive Behaviour Change. Retrieved from Huberman Lab. Robbins, M. (2017). The 5 Second Rule: Transform Your Life, Work, and Confidence with Everyday Courage. Dispenza, J. (2020). Breaking the Habit of Being Yourself: How to Lose Your Mind and Create a New One. Burchard, B. (2021). High Performance Habits: How Extraordinary People Become That Way. Ratey, J. J., & Loehr, J. E. (2020). The Positive Impact of Physical Activity on Cognitive and Emotional Health. Harvard Health Publishing. Nature Neuroscience. (2021). The Role of Physical Activity in Neurogenesis. Gabrielle-Beth VolovskyPsychotherapy and Counselling ProfessionalCertified PACFA Counsellor
